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Nothing sucks like being cheated on, then feeling pressured into cordially communicating with your now-ex. But whether you feel like you have to talk to them because you're in the same friend group, or because they randomly slide into your DMs, if your cheating ex wants to talk againyou are in no way obliged to participate.

Consider safeguarding your heart, because according to NYC-based relationship expert Susan Wintercheating exes don't usually reach out for the right reasons.

Although it can be tempting to give them the benefit of the doubt, especially if you were in a long-term, committed relationship with this person, don't be surprised if their intentions are self-serving. If this is the case, then they probably haven't done much self-reflection, and might not be thinking about your well-being enough to understand why trying to have casual sex with someone they cheated on can be problematic.

Of course, there are exceptions to every rule. And even then, they should also be completely transparent about what they're hoping to achieve by re-establishing communication with you.

Whether they want to clear their conscience, try to be friends, or see if you want to start dating again, making their intentions clear from the start is paramount. If you get even the slightest feeling that they're looking for a casual hookup, or suggest meeting for drinks "to talk" which they know could lead to sexit might be in your best interests to run in the other direction.

If you don't want to risk getting tangled up with an ex who hurt you, the safest way to handle the situation is to be direct. They've shown you their lack of character, and that's evidence enough to warrant moving on. It's up to you to decide whether an ex who cheated deserves a second chance. Relationships are complex, and infidelity can be too.

Since texts can be misinterpreted, it might be better to talk on the phone, video chat, or meet in person. If you decide to meet in person, consider meeting during the day in a public place so it's clear you're not looking to hook up.

However, if at any point during the conversation you feel uncomfortable, or realize your ex isn't someone you want to stay in contact with, you can leave. Don't feel like you have to explain or justify why you don't want to date or be friends after what happened.

In situations like this, there's absolutely nothing wrong with putting your needs first and protecting your heart and mental health. By Tayi Sanusi. Search Close.