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Silent Be. I dated my husband for three years before we got married.
Every couple goes through sweet and sour sex every now and then. And then I got pregnant. He wanted it almost every day and sometimes three times before the morning comes. Mostly I complained but ended up giving it to him anyway.
And then Kobby was born. A beautiful boy that has been a blessing to me since the day I gave birth to him. My mother came to live with us when I delivered. My mom lived with us for three months. All through the three months, I shared my bed with my mom while my husband slept in the guest room.
According to him, my mom would be needed at dawn when the baby needed special care. Sex was therefore off the menu for the first three months. And then my mother left so we started sharing our bed together. I thought I was ready to have sex but my husband never made the move as he mostly did.
Usually, at dawn, I would be giving him als for sex but he never picked the bait.
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I spoke to him about it and he complained of being put off by the baby scent I was covered in. I was a fresh mother and there was nothing I could do about it. Though I tried, nothing could get that scent he was talking about off my skin. I breastfed the baby. I changed diapers. A year passed between us and we never had sex. That affected my self-confidence and made me question the motives of my husband.
We went close to two years without sex until one night, he drew closer to me and started giving me sex vibes. I picked his intentions quickly and started drawing him in. That night we had sex.
Half a loaf, they say…. It felt like a light had been switched in me. I was bubbly. I was chatty. I was whatever. I mean like we used to? Three times before morning, you know what I mean? He switched on his candid face. The kind of face he puts on anytime he wanted to be frank about something.
It looks like you are wide down there now. All of a sudden, that light I felt went off. And for the next three months, we had no sex.
We can try that too. Who knows.
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I had to ask him to repeat himself before I could be sure if what I heard was actually what I heard. And he repeated what he said word by word. It was anal sex he wanted.
I detested the idea and expressed my hatred and anger for the idea of anal sex. Do you mean to tell me that for the rest of our lives together, we are going to have anal sex? Do you want to destroy me? I only said we could complement our sexual life with anal. After many months without sex, I decided to give it a try. So I told him to give it a try. I remember the flash of happiness on his face when he came home that night.
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He had a little paper bag containing gels and oils. He really came prepared that evening. When we finished bathing and went to bed, he started massaging me with the oil and touching me at the right places. I never knew my husband could be so touchy. And then all of sudden he pushed through the back.
“anal or no sex!” my husband demands
It was worse than the pain I went through during labor. He kept pushing while I was struggling and screaming. Then Kobby woke up crying.
That made him stop. The pain was too intense I felt it in my stomach.
My husband is obsessed with anal penetration and he wants to have a threesome with me and another man!
That night, I decided never again would I attempt that. I made it plain to him that it was never going to happen again. He made several attempts to get his way through my back, I never allowed it.
Most times we agreed on normal sex but he ended up trying to push through from behind. The pain was horrible and unbearable. I gathered the courage and told the whole truth to my parents. My dad was livid and my mom kept crying.
Sooo tmi, thoughts??? (husband wants anal)
They were convinced I had to leave the marriage if that was the case. When both his families and mine met to resolve the issues. He lied to them. He lied that I only ran from home because he caught me cheating with another man. My parent believed my side of the story. His parents also believed his side of the story. Do you have any relationship experience to share?
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Waah what some women go through is shockingly disturbing for sure. However, it is no fun when done under duress, that much I know.
That husband was an idiot, simply put. You should have used more lubrication in the ass. And when the male got his balls to your but it is fully in and he should have stayed there for a while when your anal ring would have loosen. Full Name. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. it to [ protected] Thanks a lot for reading! July 5, July 5, September 30, November 16, May 6, May 6, Bill says: Posted on January 11, at pm. Nina says: Posted on January 24, at pm. Looking for Something?
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