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I specifically want to watch my long-term partner with another man, but feel it may be pushing his boundaries too far. We had a threesome with one of his close friends, and he was somewhat uncomfortable about it afterwards. They did not interact together at all during this time, but I really would like to watch him do so in the future, not with someone we know, just another man. How do I approach this, and what do I do if I feel like he is not meeting me all the way with my desires, despite me meeting his?

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Are you in a beautiful relationship, married to the man of your dreams, with everything going perfectly? Then, one day, out of the blue your husband catches you completely off guard with a very bizarre question. Your relationship as you imagined it has taken a completely new turn, and you just can't come to grips with why he would want you to sleep with another man. Well, in this article I'm going to explain the reasons behind your husband potentially wanting this.

Some men use this as an excuse to get out of the mess they have created by cheating on their wives. They think that, "Only if I can get my wife to sleep with another man, we'll be even, and my wife can't get angry if she finds out I cheated on her". One great tool that I recommend using to rule this out is this tool click on the link to go to their site.

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Many wives have discovered their husbands were cheating on them using this tool. Hopefully that isn't the case with your relationship, but it's important rule it out before we can go further. Unfortunately this can be a common reason for husbands wanting their wives to sleep with another man. It is a sexual fetish that certain men enjoy when they watch their partner have sex with a strange man.

It denotes a forceful sightseeing of an unfaithful wife, however, based on the consent of the husband who plays the submissive role. A man who fantasizes in cuckolding is referred to as a cuckold. It is another form of mental masochism which involves deriving pleasure or enjoyment from being inflicted with pain.

for further information about cuckolding. There are several things that could motivate your husband to desire this fantasy. Most often, the major reason for this is humiliation. Humiliation means that your husband wants to increase the intensity of his sexual experience with you by being made to feel inadequate or shameful. In other words, your husband wants to eroticize his insecurities and shame by watching you have sex with another man.

His desire to humiliate himself by consenting to you having sex with another man is a means to cover up for his shortcomings as a man. Assuming your husband has a small penis or he feels he is not satisfying you enough during sex, he then talks to you of the need to bring in a third party into the affair. During your affair with the third party, your husband would be gathering momentum from the humiliation that he cannot satisfy you sexually.

When he is to have sex with you, he unleashes that momentum with full force which would bring about satisfaction. The moans, shouts, and groans you produce when having sex with the bull humiliates your husband in that it reminds him of how incapable he is of satisfying you sexually. This drives your husband to want to perform better with you sexually. Aside from humiliation, there are other reasons your husband might want to watch you have sex with some other persons.

Some of them include:. The same thing applies to the male folks too. They sometimes go around making claims about how good you are in bed. Your husband might want his friend to have a glimpse of what he is enjoying by inviting him to your home. In this situation, cuckolding is not with the view of getting humiliated but rather to share with his friends the pleasure he enjoys. This might be to just prove that he is not lying to them.

At times, a man fantasies could extend beyond just deriving sexual pleasure but also to show the world how much pleasure he is enjoying. This happens most times when the woman in question has a sexy body, worshipped by all. Cuckolding could also stem out from being across dreamer. A cross dreamer is one who fantasizes to be in the position of a woman i. He just derives pleasure by putting on your underwear or something of such sort.

Cross dreaming is double-faceted in the sense that the cross dream is attracted to his wife and to the fact that what is being done to his wife is done to them. For instance, your husband derives pleasure from spanking you and from the feeling that he is being spanked. With regards to cuckolding, therefore, your husband watching you have sex with another man is he projecting himself to be the one having sex with that man.

Thus, deriving pleasure.

Your husband might just want you to have the utmost satisfaction sexually. This is mainly due to too much enlightenment on the part of your husband. They do not see it as a means to derive pleasure whatsoever but that your sexual desires are met. To your husband, he wants you to have a taste of something different. This way, introducing an entirely different sex to you, his wife.

So, to get the sexual approval he needs from you, his wife, he falls back while you receive satisfaction sexually. Also, rather than having to watch pornography to learn how to satisfy you, your husband might want a more experienced man, the bull, to show him how best to do it. This can be very informative as well as arousing. He most likely had enjoyed approval and praises but not acceptance and affection. It is more of a psychological thing here.

Thus, when having sex with the bull, he suffers rejection but afterward, your going back to him after the hot sex transforms that rejection into a feeling of being loved and needed. Before marriage, there is always this feeling of competing to get you by your husband.

With so many suitors at your feet, your husband finally wins and upon marriage, such competition ends. Naturally, your husband loved that competition and it fantasized him. Now, in a bid to reenact that competition, your husband might have brought the idea of cuckolding.

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This way, there is a need to improve his game to meet your sexual desire. Based on studies, it has been discovered that there is usually a stronger connection built after engaging in cuckolding. Also, it helps both you and your husband appreciate each other better. For the fact that your husband opened up shows how much he trusts you.

Cuckolding increases trust, oneness, and closeness which are all important to have and enjoy a long-lasting and healthy relationship. If the reason for cuckolding is for the cuckold, your husband, to learn how best to satisfy you then this is a great idea. Cuckolding offers you the opportunity to help your husband reach his potentials sexually. This way, he is able to provide you with the satisfaction you desire. Couples who practice cuckolding are said to have a long-lasting relationship compared to those who do not.

Some couples see sex — with someone else — as a means of staying together

This is because cuckolding provides them with exciting and novel experiences. Rather than doing the same thing repeatedly, cuckolding provides you with varieties of styles one can try out to achieve sexual satisfaction. Cuckolding is more of an open relationship as the husband is fully aware of the man you are having sex with.

This improves trust as you do not have to hide anything from him yet, you are satisfying your sexual desires.

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Most times, the cuckold does not fantasize about having sex with other women. More so, with full awareness of your sexual desires, your relationship can remain healthy, rid of jealousy and unfaithfulness.

This in a way improves the confidence level of you and your husband since the both of you are achieving sexual satisfaction. Cuckolding, as weird or absurd as it might sound to you, has a lot in it for you of which includes:. There is the sexual satisfaction or fulfillment you would enjoy for partaking in cuckolding.

Giving the opportunity to enjoy sex from different sexual partners. Every one of the bulls come with different sexual styles and skills that your husband may not have. It could also be that these bulls are able to satisfy your sexual fantasies like enjoying sex from a bigger penis.

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Irrespective of the specifics, you are going to enjoy a more enthusiastic, satisfying, and frequent sex. Normally, the woman is bestowed with the responsibility of childbirth and to sexually satisfy the husband. Also, women have been scripted to be in the position to accept the promiscuousness of men while being submissive and loyal to a fault.